I used to date a guy, and we were tallking about everything online. While, several days later, he asked me something about transsexual, he said " What's about your transsexual?" It is one of the most awkward question in transgender dating. In most occasions, I would make my partner know that I'm trans. Because I hope they can know more about how to date and chat with trans women before dating. I want to avoid being awkward and uncomfortable in dating. As a trans woman, I'm ready to date someone who can really accept me, but I will never ready enough to answer any questions about transgender and transsexual. If you are curious about trans and transsexual people, just google your questions, I think you can get the detail answer by this way.
Somebody asks me what the feeling of being trans. I'm not sure if other trans people are willing to share their feeling of being trans with you, I don't want to spend a second to think about this quastion and I don't want to answer this question. This is another dating disaster that I want to avoid in dating. When I was asked this question, it made me feel that transgender people is a special group in other people's eyes. Have you ever ask your friends what the feeling of being a man or a women? Of course not. Being trans is the same as being ordinary people. I've also met a couple, they were friendly and wanted to be friends with trans people. I used to think they can be permanent friends to me. But as getting along with them, I found they were so curious about trans people, when they asked me what's the feeling of being trans, I was so surprised. I don't want to be friends with people who just want to know more about trans. I need some close friends who can really accept and understand me.
The final disaster for me is being too intimate. Many people I met online ask some personal questions when we first chat with each other. Ts dating with trans never mean you can ask and do anything you want at the first dating. Many transgender women online are open enough to accept ts hookup or open relationships, but it doesn't mean you can ask any personal qustions when you first meet each other. According to my personal experience, if you are always eager for quick and instant hookup or relationship in transgender dating, maybe, you cannot get what you want in an easy way. We are always thankful that there are some friendly people who are willing to ts date with us, but we hope they can be serious when dating with us.