1. What you say is not what you think
This is the first complaint a man makes. Most men believe that transgender women say one thing and think another, and then expect men to read their minds and read between the lines what they really want. I'm sorry to tell you, trans women, men don't know what trans women really want. They are not mind readers. Remember that communication is key! You should know that no one in the world knows all your thoughts, and no man can fully understand you. To maintain a relationship, you need constant communication between the two sides.
2. They hate transgender women acting like victims
In fact, men don't mind opening and closing doors, paying bills now and then, and living happily ever after. But let's face it, if you're looking for a night and shining armor to save you, then maybe you have to save yourself, because prince charming is just a mythical character. Transgender women, don't act like a victim. Men don't like their partners to act like they're weak or innocent.
3. Stop following his Facebook feed
Even if you think your man is handsome, do you think every pretty trans woman wants him? The answer, of course, is no. According to most men, not every trans woman wants them, and even if they do want your man, if he does, it's his choice. For god's sake, learn to trust your man, and if you don't trust him, have enough faith to let him go. But don't follow his Facebook feed or peek into his personal information. Tell him who can and can't be friends.
4. Don't think any man will hurt you
This is an important one of the five, because many men know that some trans women are really hurt by the man they love. But, on the other hand, what the last man did to you was not the man's fault, so please let go of the past and accept the man in your life. Not every man has an agenda for you and wants to hurt you. Believe your own feelings, if a man is really good to you, you can feel it.